Archive - the marrow of life

February 2025

January 2025

entry #7: dating, jane austen, and estate settlement

I’m writing this at a coworking space in LA.

Jan 24 •

How does having a popular social media page affect your relationships?

Being afraid of what distant friends thought was the primary fear that held me back from posting originally.

Jan 13 •

Do you feel guilty when you’re not sad or grieving at the moment?

my guilt comes from an expectation of what grief should look like

Jan 9 •

How do you get the courage to start something new and stay motivated?

I also know what it feels like to have aspirations and struggle to get started. If you’re like me, that is food for self criticism.

Jan 4 •

December 2024

there is no perfect year

The end of year reflecting and planning is stressful for me. Perfectionism leads to wanting control. I feel a need to put a tidy bow on the year.

Dec 29, 2024 •

using ai to reflect on my year

I think often about how the narratives I tell myself affect the outcome of my life.

Dec 29, 2024 •

Are you excited for Christmas or do you anticipate it will be hard this year?

I ask because I think a lot about my parents on Christmas time....

Dec 24, 2024 •

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